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The article is directed at women but gay and bi-sexual men will benefit from it as well.
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Sucking Cocks
Part-1-of-2
Tips for giving head
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Why Do Women Give Head? Because they know that's what it takes to keep a man happy. I have friends that aren’t into having their head shoved down into a man's lap like a hooker. They have such a dislike to the overall attitude of entitlement when it comes to sucking their husband or boyfriends cock, they just don't do it. Period. Often they offered to pay a hooker to suck their husband/boyfriend's pee but usually to no avail. Their guys don't want a hooker; they want their girl to do it.
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So in my friends’ minds it has more to do with a power tripping than sex. And my friends are the type that they are always going to come out on top in this situation. As is their right, they never do anything they don't want to do, and that includes sucking their man's cock. If the guy won't allow them to hire a hooker to take care of this need of theirs, then fuck it the guy can go without.
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One of my friends says that she prefer sex, and lots of it. She don't want or need a man's head between her legs either. She just wants s a cock, plain and simple.
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She thinks guys who use oral sex to satisfy women probably have small cocks. They say guys with small cocks also demand anal sex, again because their cocks are so small this is the only way they can get satisfaction.
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I feel sorry for these friends. I think that they’re missing out on a fun, but if that’s their attitude I can’t help them.
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But for the ladies that I can help, I think that most guys are easy to please when it comes to sucking their cock. Sure, you might find yourself the occasional connoisseur, but generally if you go for quantity over quality you can't go wrong. But, if you want to blow his mind when you blow his cock, here are some tips. I've got most of my information from asking other people, both guys and girls, and I've included stuff I've learned in my experience as a cock-sucking slut.
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First of all, the general opinion seems to be that unless there's a pressing reason (like you're sucking off total strangers on a crowded train) it's preferable if you're naked. Particularly if you've got nice breasts (and let's face it, boys are less fussy about the breasts they can get in their bedroom than they are about the ones in porn), topless is almost a minimum requirement. There are a couple of advantages to being naked when you're giving a blowjob. Firstly, it's easier to clean up, just rub anything that lands on you into your skin. Sure, you'll never get a nice Monica Lewinski-style souvenir, but at the same time you'll save money on dry cleaning. Secondly, it means easy access so you or he can play with your bits and pieces -- you'll both love it, more on this later.
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.......... (its preferable if you're naked)..
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Now, obviously getting naked before giving head will decrease the spontaneity a bit. Spontaneity is something a lot of guys like, and I think there are a few reasons. Firstly, the idea that you can't wait to get his cock in your mouth and drink the cum straight out of him will probably drive your man wild. I remember watching in awe as my best friend dropped to her knees at a music festival once, her man loved it so much she barely got her mouth around his cock in time to swallow his load. I think a spontaneous blowjob also has a subtle psychological effect. If you randomly whip out his cock and suck him off, it will seem more likely to him that you'll do it again some time.
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So to put a bit of that spontaneity back in, you could try a couple of things that work for me. Obviously, you could take advantage of already being naked, if you're changing clothes or taking a shower. Another thing that I've found drives most men wild is to drop to your knees, start sucking on their cock, and then tear your clothes off. Finally, you could do a little bit of planning and be wearing something that will come off quickly and easily as you move toward his big, throbbing member. You could, of course, suck him off fully clothed every once in a while; some guys love it like that, some like to have a view.
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A very important aspect of your blowjob is what I will, for want of a better word, call presentation. I've found that there's not much turns a man on more than the idea that you can't resist sucking on his cock. Paradoxically, a bit of teasing is also a big help, particularly if you're trying to make and impression. The old sucking on a prop trick is clichéd because it works; so don't be afraid to use it. If there's nothing suitable to use readily available, then suck on your finger. This is extremely effective if you do it in public. Just keep your eyes locked on his, so he knows the prop is standing in for his cock, not someone else's.
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In a similar vein, give him a big sloppy kiss and pretend his tongue is his cock. Suck it into your mouth and run your tongue over it. Some guys like this more than others.
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Once you get him alone with plenty of time, give him a show. You or he can take your clothes off, but if you want him to do it, men can be a bit slow sometimes so you might need to get it started to give him the idea. If you're a confident girl (or guy), give him a bit of a striptease, with or without music, finish up with a few sexy poses, then take out his cock and chow down. If you're a bit less outgoing, or you're shy, take your own clothes off, but do it slowly. One thing that use to help me was imagining that my hands belong to someone else. Move a slowly as you can, turning occasionally. Caress your own skin like a lover should. A big teasing tip: remove your underwear with your back to him, but turn between bra and panties so he gets a look at your breasts. Pinch your nipples a bit for him; I've never met a man that didn't work on. If you're insecure about your body, do all this with the lights low; guys have a pretty good imagination, so chances are he'll remember you looking sexier than you think.
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So now you're at the stage where you're naked and he's starting to go crazy with lust. You need to get over there and start sucking, and you can just do that directly if you want. This works well in terms of making him feel irresistible. I would recommend saying something like, "Get that big cock out, honey, I want to suck you dry," as you advance on him. Try to time it so your knees hit the floor as his cock pops out of his pants, that way it's more like a porn movie, and he'll love it.
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To keep things in your control, you need to keep him mesmerized, so I'd recommend slow and sexy movements. If he's standing I like to walk over to him, hips swaying sensuously, and grab his belt. Pull him up against me, press my breasts against his chest, and kiss him as I undo his pants. Then getting down on my knees as I push his undies down; you can kiss down his body if you want, but I would recommend looking up into his eyes.
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If he's sitting I like to crawl submissively over to him. If he's on a chair I crawl all the way, but if he's on a bed I'll walk to the bed then crawl up to him. As you crawl, arch your back downward like a cat stretching. Try brushing your nipples on the floor. This leaves your ass sticking up in the air, and the crawling motion will make it sway enticingly. When you reach him, stop at his cock, give him a lustful look and start getting into his pants.
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This is the point where you’ll either whip him out and get started or else you turn the teasing up to eleven. I have driven guys wild by starting to blow them through their underwear (this works better with stretchy skin-tight undies than with loose silk boxers). Try giving him the impression that as much as you're teasing him, the self-denial is twice as bad for you. A girlfriend of mine likes to savor the smell as if it's a cigar. Do whatever you feel like, the important thing is that you're teasing him to make it better, not to make his life miserable. How you proceed once you're face-to-face with his cock depends on what condition it's in. Young guys will be just about ready to cum, while old guys won't be hard yet (generally -- prepare to be surprised, it's part of the fun). One thing I absolutely love is putting a flaccid cock in my mouth and feeling it swell up in there. I'll also pop the young guys straight in so that if they're going to lose it we can get the first one out of the way and start again. Otherwise I generally give the cock a bit of a tongue bath.
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I'd like to talk a bit about taste. Personally, I think cock tastes good. It doesn't have to be straight out of the shower, I don't mind if it's developed a bit of a manly aroma, within reason. If you pull it out of his pants and the smell slaps you in the face then take him to the shower, give him a rinse (this can be sensuous), and continue from there. Trust me, most guys will do anything for head, so he won't mind, just try not to grimace or retch. You might find a man who wants you to lick things off him. Whipped cream and stuff is fine (although wash well to avoid smelling of cheese), no problems. Lots of guys like you to lick your pussy juices off them (assuming you're not using a condom, which means only in a trusting relationship once you've been tested -- very important), which is something I have no problem with. I would advise you to taste yourself on your own if you think you might do this. Lick your fingers when you’re masturbating, that way you won't surprise yourself. Some guys want to do the ass-to-mouth thing they've seen in porn. Leave this one in the videos, it's not worth the risk associated with ingesting your own shit. Finally, personally I hate the taste of latex, but I know some of my girlfriends don't mind it. I always use flavored condoms for casual sex so he'll at least taste of chocolaty latex.
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So, now we're up to licking his cock all over. Try to savor the experience; it'll turn him on even more if you love (or he thinks you love) what you're doing. One important thing about cocks is that you can push them up (against his stomach), but it could hurt him if you push it down too hard (some guys love this, though). Most guys like it if you push their cock up against their stomach and lick the underside of it. With it pushed against his stomach, you can move down and lick their balls (gently!), and I go a bit lower to lick his back hole. This is where if you are into it, and don't mind the risk, you can give your man's ass a bit of a licking.
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Usually at this point you've …
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To be continued…
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Tips for Giving Head
Part-2-of-2
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Usually at this point you’ve got one hand lifting his cock by the tip, and the other's not really doing much, which leads us to the question of what to do with your hands. If you're lucky enough to have a big man, your hands will be very useful because they will be the only way to stimulate the base of his cock. Wrap your hand around the base of his shaft and stroke the part that you can't fit into your mouth. You can do the same thing if you want to concentrate on his head with your lips and tongue.
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If you're at a loss at what to do, you could always play with yourself. I've sucked off a lot of guys who loved to look down and see me sucking hard on their cock while I tweaked and pulled both my nipples. If you're planning to blow this guy again, be sure to show him the wet spot you leave behind because you got so turned on sucking on his big, beautiful, hard cock.
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By now you should have a big, hard cock in your mouth (you lucky thing!) and your man's full attention. As far as I can tell, the consensus seems to be that sloppy is better. You want to leave a shiny layer all over him, so make sure that you're not dehydrated before you start so you can generate plenty of spit. He'll love the idea that you drool at the thought of sucking him off, and I'm told it feels better. This is also an area where fingering yourself gives you an advantage. You can use your own juices to lube him up, supplementing his pre-cum and your saliva. You might have seen this in porn (or maybe real life, who knows?) girls spitting at cocks. This is something I personally find a bit weird, but if a guy asked for it I'd do it. What I find sexier is nestling him between my boobs and sort of dribbling on him. Anything that misses I just wipe off my breasts onto his cock.
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Speaking of this kind of thing, I've been with guys who've asked for a tit-fuck, and I'm usually happy to oblige. I think with this kind of thing the turn-on is more visual than anything else, so be sure to look up at him with your sexy eyes and make a real show of sliding your boobs up and down his hard-on. Rather than waste saliva on this (it's hard to make enough) I recommend you get some lube. If it doesn't make you feel silly, a bit of dirty talking wouldn't be amiss. One thing I do like is rubbing a guy’s cock over my nipples. In fact I love to tell a man how wonderful his cock is as I rub it over my skin, face, breasts, nipples, through my hair. I think it's because it feels a bit naughty.
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On the subject of talking, I have this to say: if you can talk to the guy, it's not a blowjob. Your mouth should be full most of the time. Don't get me wrong; hand-jobs are great, especially at the end. I love to watch a cock twitch and pump a big load of cum at me, watch it fly towards me, and feel it splatter on my skin. If you're giving head, however, there needs to be lots of contact between your mouth and his cock. If you want to talk to him, do it between deep sucks of his cock. For example, ask him how it feels, then bury him in your mouth while he groans his ecstatic response, then pop him out again and tell him you love it too. Also, give him the impression talking is secondary to sucking by not answering him immediately. If he asks you a yes/no question, don't even take him out of your mouth, just answer with an "Uh-huh" with your mouth full.
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In terms of incoherent noises, I would advise you not to fake sexual pleasure because most guys won't buy it if you fake an orgasm while blowing them. If you do want to make some sort of moan, think more of eating a delicious chocolate dessert rather than being skillfully fingered. Of course, if you're going to cum for real, just let it out, and if you’re playing with yourself (or he's playing with you), respond to that too. The noises he really wants to hear are the ones that show how hard you're working -- the sucking, slurping, popping noise of a girl trying as hard as she can to drink her man's cum!
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If you talk to him, don't try to be too clever. Remember that most of his blood is not in his brain anymore. When I first see the guys cock, I like to complement it. Maybe tell him it's big, hot, hard, beautiful, whatever's not too blatant a lie. If you really can't complement its appearance, give it a good licking or sucking and then tell him it's delicious. In fact, tell him that regardless. During the course of the blowjob you can reinforce the message by repeating it. You could also tell him how much you love what you're doing, or how turned on you are (don't lie about this, he might check). If this is just stage one of the lovemaking, tell him what you look forward to doing next. If he's a stranger you've picked up, you could tell him that you never do this but you find him irresistible. At the end, it's usually a good idea to give the guy permission and encouragement. It's nice to let him know you want to swallow, or take it on your face, or whatever. If there's something you don't want, tell him you do want something else, so instead of, "Don't you dare cum in my mouth, you perve," he hears, "I want it all over my tits, you big stud." If you don't want the cum on you, tell him you want to watch him shoot, then point his cock past you.
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As far as technique goes, I think it comes pretty naturally. You're mimicking intercourse using your mouth, essentially. The difference is teeth, tongue, and the ‘fact’ that good girls don't do it. Lots of guys are freaked out by teeth in blowjobs, some guys like it. You could ask, but I prefer to let him ask me for it. Generally, just use your teeth either to scrape gently over the shaft, or to kind of grip the head at the back and pull, once again, gently. The tongue is a whole other matter. You need to use it. I don't have a tongue piercing because I like my teeth and don't want them chipped or ground down, but apparently this really does make a difference. Your tongue should slither around him, wrapping itself around the head, sliding along the shaft. Your technique will vary depending on the length of your tongue. A favorite among guys seems to be sticking your tongue out to lick his balls while his cock is buried in your mouth, but unless he's miniscule you'll need to control your gag reflex.
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Now, guys love going down your throat, feeling the head of their cock bump the back of your throat, which is something I blame on porn. I personally have a gag reflex, so I can't do the relentless throat-fucking thing you see in movies, and I don't think there's anything sexy about puking. If you’re with someone who wants to make you throw up, make sure you get most of it on him. This deep-throat thing is OK as long as you're in control, though. Once again, it’s probably because it feels naughty, but it can be a real turn-on to go as far down his cock as you can. I think guys actually prefer it if you gag a little bit, pop up for air, then dive straight back onto them, rather than either the professional ‘I can do this all night’ thing or if you go too hard and spend minutes coughing. If a guy grabs your head and you're not one of those girls who likes that, or if you don't trust this particular guy, take his hands and move them down to your nipples. Then suck him as deep and as hard as you can to show that there are no hard feelings.
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If you're still at a loss as far as technique goes, get some porn and try anything you see that you like. What's even more fun is to get some porn, then watch it with your man and give him what he sees on screen (maybe a good idea to check the movie on your own first to avoid nasty surprises). Guys love it if you can give them exactly the same rhythm and action as the slut on screen.
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After doing your thing for a while, he'll be getting ready to unload for you. If you're a bit inexperienced and can't tell, he'll start to do something different. Lots of guys start to thrust at you, which means they want you to use their rhythm rather than yours so go with that; some guys go still, so basically don't let that freak you out; some guys start talking more, or get less coherent and more grunting. If he starts saying, "I'm gonna cum, I'm gonna cum," over and over, he's probably a little way off and needs some help, which you can provide by popping him out of your mouth and begging for a big load.
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You'll learn to read the signs pretty easily. When he cums, his pelvic muscles all squeeze up to shoot the semen out of him and this means that his balls will clinch up and his shaft will twitch. Then you'll find yourself with a jet of hot cum to deal with, and you should think about how you're going to do that well before it happens.
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Personally, I think cum tastes fantastic, I'd buy it in bottles if I could so obviously I have no problem swallowing it. If you do, if the guy’s a regular, I suggest that you try to change the taste. No, he can't get his sperm to taste like chocolate by eating chocolate (As far as I know). HOWEVER, a guy can change the flavor of his sperm depending on what he eats. If he avoids drinking coffee and smoking, and limits his dairy and red meat, it helps. Adding more fruits and vegetables, especially pineapple and citrus to his diet and his cum should start tasting sweet.
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Until the taste improves, I suggest two things. First of all, catch it on your skin, and then rub it in like a lotion. It’s sexy without you needing to taste it. Secondly, try to acquire a taste for it, because there are some fun places you can blow a man where you don't want to leave a mess (your car, for example).
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Some guys want to cum on you (usually face or breasts after a blowjob), which might be their way of marking you or something.
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.......... (Some guys want to cum on your face)
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Whatever it is, there's not much reason not to let them if you're in private. If you're in public (or about to be), maybe consider just how bad the consequences could be, although chances are people won't really notice much. One of the sexiest things I've ever done was to blow a random guy first thing in the morning at university, have him wipe his cock in my hair, and then walk around all day being able to smell the faint aroma of cock in my hair. None of my girlfriends commented, so I assume they didn't notice, but I was so turned on I had to go and buy some more panties at lunchtime.
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To give a man the best of both worlds, do one of these, then the other. Have him cum on you, then scoop it up and eat it, or collect his cum in your mouth and dribble it all over yourself. I have a friend who likes to ‘accidentally on purpose’ get a few dribbles on her clothes to make herself look and feel sluttier.
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Once you finish, don't forget to thank him. he'll thank you, but won't expect thanks back. If he's a regular of yours tell him you have so much fun you need to do it more often. If he's more of a one-time thing then tell him you'd love to do it again.
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I hope all this helps. Please remember to be safe, and that nobody has the right to force you to do something you don't want to do.
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